Biking Adventures + Birthdays

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I had plans of just writing a simple post about our bike adventure. However, something about looking at these photos on my birthday made me feel so much more. I turned 32 yesterday. 32. yikes. I loved turning 30. It seemed like an awesome mile stone, 31 was ok because it was still close to 30. 32 though? Not sure how I felt about that one. The weeks leading up to it and I kept thinking “ugh I don’t want to be 32, I still see myself as a kid” (not that 32 is old by any means- just the idea of getting older). I woke up yesterday to the girls jumping on me yelling happy birthday and you know what, it didn’t matter what age I was turning. This was my moment. My reality. I wouldn’t care what age I was turning because I wouldn’t change this. These sweet girls, this stage of life, the good and the bad, all the lessons I’ve learned, my husband who is only getting more handsome with age, the hardships, my dear, dear friends. Just everything that is going on. I wouldn’t change any of it. We all go through life differently and hit different life stages at different ages. Some get married young, some get married later on. We can have kids, start careers, or celebrate life milestones all at different times. We all do it on our own timeline. I don’t think we should put the pressure on ourselves to fit into some standard life timeline. We should enjoy our own, however standard, accelerated or delayed you might feel it is. We should enjoy our moments, our lives, our years wherever they may fall on the timeline. I love birthdays. It’s such a great day to celebrate a year of life. The hardships you may have gone through, the laughs and tears you may have shed. All of it is good. Kev gave me the sweetest of days yesterday. Starting with a big breakfast out at my favorite place, a beautiful drive out to our parents in Massachusetts, seeing family and then an evening without the kids in one of my favorite places. Boston holds so many memories for me. I loved every minute of last night with him. A date with him will always be hands down my favorite thing. It’s so nice to shed all the hats you wear day to day and just be the 2 people you were when you fell in love. Life is busy and it’s nice to slow it down for each other. To get to talk, hold hands, and just be silly. It was a very happy birthday.

Ok. Back to bike adventures. Looking at these photos makes me smile. What a fun and crazy adventure. We have these beautiful bike paths around us that go on for miles and miles. Over labor day we decided to pack up our new bike trailer and head on a bike trek. We packed up all kinds of snacks, a picnic blanket, got the girls ready and off we went. We didn’t plan out our time very well though. We were all so eager and excited that we biked way, I mean waaaaaay too far in one direction before we decided “hey, maybe we should turn around.” When we did turn around we realized just how far we had gone. It was a looong way back. One that the girls were not too happy about. Whooops. #parentfail. Oh well. We pushed through, and when it got just a little too rough on everyone we stopped and had a delightful little picnic (hello golden hour!) by the river. It gave us enough energy to power through to the end. hahahha. We did really have a great time though, the girls crack me up in their helmets. Our new bike trailer is seriously the best. So much easier than the bike seats, plus the girls were playing and talking together the whole time. Our bikes are so old and crappy. Would love to update our bikes at some point (love this one!).

Anyway, No matter where you fail on your timeline, be thankful! Sometimes when I am in the thick of a meltdown (like the tail end of our bike adventure- both girls were screaming. Kind of embarrassing as we passed all the other bikers) I can find myself wishing time would speed up to the next stage of life. The one where the girls are a bit older and can be a bit more independent. But than I look at these pictures and I can’t help but laugh and just see all the love and fun we have. Even through the crying, the sleepless nights, the no time for myself, pushing aside other passions, this is my moment on my timeline and I am fully embracing it. It will pass and it will pass quick (although I know in the thick of things it does not feel like that). I know this year for us is going to be a crazy one, but I am going to make 32 a great year for myself just by being thankful for all that comes my way.

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^^ Finley thought this was about the funniest thing ever. She kept yelling “moooore”.

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*This post was sponsored by Wayfair, Best insulated backpack for picnics | Wayfair, Picnic blanket | Wayfair, Rowan’s Helmet | Amazon, Finley’s Helmet | Similar, My Romper | LOFT, Kev’s TShirt | DIY, Smart Planet Eco Lunch Containter | Amazon, Finley’s Dress | Little Hip Squeaks

Let’s Chat Stitchfix

I’ve been using Stictchfix for about a year now. It’s total novelty but I kind of love it. In case you don’t know what it is… You fill out a style profile all about your personal style. Your likes and dislikes, etc.. and then they match you with a stylist who once a month will pick out 5 items for you. They arrive at your door and you get to try them on, see what you like, buy anything that catches your fancy and return (in an easily pre packed envelope) anything you don’t want. Not every box is a winner. The more specific you are and the longer you do it the better they get though. You can link to certain fashion pinterest boards, ask for certain items and let them know of upcoming events to help them pick out the right items for you. I don’t get to the mall all that often with the girls so this is just a little extra treat. Some boxes I’ve kept everything and there have been a few boxes where I’ve sent back all 5 items, but usually I end up keeping 1-2 items. It’s so fun opening the box and seeing what’s in there!!

Give it a try!

Here are my 5 most recent items…

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I ended up keeping the black skinny jeans and the tank top. The denim jacket was cool but I already have one, and the red blouse was really fun but I am trying keep my closet a little more neutral this fall. The skirt was horrible. Blah! Totally not my style and so unshapely. I didn’t even want to try it on. In my notes back I wrote I would love to see more denim, dresses, plaid button ups, and sweaters for fall. I’ll let you know what they end up sending next month.

*this is not a sponsored post although the link is a referral code. I will be going on a little Stichfix trip in the next month but this post has nothing to do with that nor was I asked to write about them.

A Weekend In Quebec City

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Last weekend we packed the car and headed north for a few days of exploring, adventures and running. I love signing up for marathons in cities I’ve never been. That way we get to travel and explore the area as well as run the race. It’s a double win! I was only running a half marathon this time but we decided it would be fun to take the trek up to Quebec City to run. It was a little bit longer of a drive than we had hoped for (almost 8 hours) but we all survived. On the way there and the way home we stopped for a good hour at a playground to let everyone stretch their legs and have some fun.

Quebec City was beautiful! My most favorite place in the world is France, so this is about as close as you can get with out crossing any oceans. Love the charm, the language and the history of this Canadian city. There was so much to explore! We barely scratched the surface, we sure tried though. We walked EVERYWHERE on Saturday. Maybe not a good idea when you’re running a race the next morning, but what are you going to do? We loved all the little alley ways, beautiful architecture, cobblestone, huge green lawns, and exploring the walls around the city. We stayed at the Le Chateau Frontenac. What a beautiful hotel! They had some great views and a lovely rooftop terrace to enjoy. It was a great last hurrah for the summer!

My race went well. It was extremely hot and totally not my fastest race by far but I finished and got my medal to add to the wall. More on the race in another post.

Happy Monday everyone!

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Weekend Links

Why do holiday weekends always mean retail sales? I don’t really get it but I am not complaining either. I was pretty excited when I got the Loft email this morning about their 50% off fall items (including LOU & Grey!!!) this weekend. I may or may not just ordered some great basics to transition into fall. Here are my favorites…

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Lou & Grey Maxi | Easy Tee | Lou & Grey Romper | Shirtdress | Spacedye Zip Pocket Dress | Camo Skirt

I few of my other favorites from around the web…
1. Loved this post about breastfeeding. Had me crying I was laughing so hard.

2. With Fall on the horizon I’ve been on the hunt for cute sweaters. Love this grey one with subtle heart, a cardigan with striped sleeves and this super cute sweatshirt.

3. Best cover of a song ever! Mates of State can do no wrong in my book. Love them.

4. I may not be going back to school but I am pretty obsessed with all the cute backpacks out there. Love using a backpack for a purse. So much easier! How cute are these… 1 | 2 | 3 | and of course a little girl one as well.

5. Julie is so dang cute! Loved this post. So glad they moved a little closer to us. Road trip!!

6. This tart cherry frozen yogurt is on my list of things I NEED to make before the summer is over.

7. We have been traveling a lot lately and this weekender bag from Everlane is hands down the best travel bag ever. I am head over heels in love with it. It holds so much and just looks so cool. I can’t get enough of Everlane.

8. Monica has a new site! It’s great and you should check it out and subscribe if you don’t already. So much fun, wisdom and sweetness over there.

9. I have some travel coming up this month. I am headed to San Francisco for a fun little trip and then I am speaking at the Influence Conference the end of September. I have been looking for some cute (not tOo high) heels that I could wear with jeans and not kill my feet. Love these black and leopard pair. Look pretty perfect to me!

10. Speaking of Influence Conference!!! Who’s going?? I am super exciteD but don’t know a lot of people going. Please let me know if you are going, would love to meet up! Also tickets are only on sale until the end of this weekend! Better grab one quick. It’s going to be an awesome time.

11. Nordstorms is having 40% off sale this weekend. They have great items in the kids sections. Check it out!

12. We recently bought this b&w american flag tapestry for one of our walls. I had my doubts I would like it but oh man! it’s so awesome. Totally completes our living room.

Our Everyday Style | 08.29.14

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I think I’ve had to come to the realization that this just isn’t my season when it comes to blogging. Which I am sure most of you could have figured out already. Hello like 3 posts all month! Feeling neck deep (in a good way) with real life and motherhood these days and blogging just is not happening all that much. I am ok with that. It’s life and I really am enjoying ours. The girls are just so busy at this age. They keep me on my toes with pretty much no down time till after they go to bed. Seriously, can someone with 3+ kids share their wisdom because I can’t figure out how we’re going to be adding more kids to the mix (yep, still waiting for our first placement). Finley in and of herself is a full time job. That girl is mischievous but she sure has a stop you in your tracks and melt your heart kind of smile- even when she is coloring on your bedspread with a sharpie. DOH! I wouldn’t change our days for anything. Even with the chaos, exhaustion and practically no “me” time, these girls are my everything. Heck! That is one of the reasons I wanted to homeschool. I just want them around.

I love taking these “Our Everyday Style” pictures. It’s like a little record of the 3 of us at that particular moment. This one can be labeled: End of Summer 2014. On this day in particular I woke up early to go to a Foster Care meeting with Faithbridge at a local church in the area. What a cool organization. When I got home the girls and I did some errands, visited the library, and cooked some delicious chocolate zucchini muffins before heading to the town pool for one of the very last times this summer (boooo!). It wasn’t a particularly extraordinary day but one that represents this season of life.

and can we just talk about how cute the Minnetonka for Hello Kitty collaboration is??
Love all their new mocs and boots for fall.

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OUTFIT DETAILS:
Jen:
Jumper: Madewell
Polka Dot Chambray: forever 21
Mesa Boots: c/o Minnetonka
Glasses: c/o David Kind

Rowan:
Dress: Gap
Tights: Target
Hello Kitty Moccasins: c/o Minnetonka

Finley:
Vest: Target
Ruffle Top: Target
Jeans: Gap
Double Fringe Booties: c/o Minnetonka

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